90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 DaysstarDavid James Murphey has died.The Las Vegas resident was first seen inseason 4 with a womannamed Lana Svetlana from Ukraine. David was a 60-year-old man who had met the 27-year-old Lana through an online dating portal.David and Lana’s relationshipsuggested Lana was a catfish. The two had not met each other for over eight years into their long-distance romance. Lana had stood David up multiple times when he went to Ukraine. David even hired an investigator after Lana’s address turned out to be fake.
Lana finally met David on90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days. Thecat-loving computer programmer Davidhad sworn off American women forever. He claimed to have had a string of failed relationships with local women. He had alwayshad a thing for Slavic beauties.David imaged a future with Lanawhere he would take his RV and go on road trips with his lady love. Unfortunately for David, the dream never turned into reality.
David Announced His Breakup With Lana
During the90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Daysseason 4 Tell All, David told host Shaun Robinson that he hadspent around $250,000 to $300,000 on his flights and travelto Ukraine to meet the women he had chosen from a catalog and on a paid dating service over the course of about 20 years. He said he’s been to Ukraine about 20 times. As per David, Lana was still on the website. He had gifted her an iPhone for better communication in the finale, and so she could talk to him on the phone instead of on the website.
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He revealed she didn’t use the phone because “it was difficult for her to manipulate the iPhone keyboard with her nails. It wasn’t comfortable for her.” David was actively defending his relationship from his co-stars, who tried to make him understand that Lana was scamming him because she only interacted with him on the paid service platform and that she wasn’t his real lover. David revealed that he had proposed to women before Lana. Two women in America and two in Ukraine. Eventually, David said that while he and Lana are now engaged, they are not currently together.
Lana Denied Ghosting David
Lana Claimed She Was Never Engaged To David
In January 2021,Lanafinally spoke to her fans via Instagram. When a fan asked her why she ghosted David, Lana replied, “I don’t.” She suggested that what happened in their storyline was done for the show to create drama. A follower asked Lana if she planned on returning to the franchise. Her response was, “Depends.” She said she did not participate in the Tell All because she was not allowed for the “truth to be told.” Lana went on to claim that she and David were not actually engaged. “It was just for the show,” she declared.
David Said He May Have Alzheimer’s
David’s Father Passed In 2021
Davidused Instagram infrequently since his90DFappearance. He had taken a five-month break until May 2021, when he decided to post a long video providing several crucial life updates. David revealed that his father had died a few weeks ago. His father wasdiagnosed with Alzheimer’s around Christmas in 2019. It progressed quite quickly to the point that he wasn’t himself most of the time. David’s father also had other health issues, and doctors had given him two to five years. He also revealed that two people from his dad’s family had Alzheimer’s, so he would probably have it too.
“Sometimes, at this age, I have memory loss.”
David Began Spending Time With Amira Lollysa
Was Amira David’s New Girlfriend After Lana?
By January 2022, David had made a new friend in the franchise. It was Amira from90 Day Fiancéseason 8 who was going to get married to Andrew Kenton on her season. Amira had called off her engagement, but she now seemed to be living in America. She used to share photos and videos with David. David insisted he did not have a girlfriend, but he had taken Amira RV shopping.Amira also suggested she had moved in with Davidby posting a picture of her packed bags captioned, “new home"and David was tagged in the Story too.
David Applied To Ukraine Embassy To Fight During Russian War
David Was Also Dating A Woman Named Olga
David made a comeback to the franchise with90 Day Fiancé’sDiariesin April 2022. It seemingly confirmed that David and Amira were not in a relationship. David was back in the world of online dating and had met a new woman named Olga from Ukraine among several other women. He had known Olga for three or four years. He had cut things off with Olga after his relationship with Lana turned serious. David was going to head to Ukraine to meet Olga this time. However, when Davidattempted to call “the real deal” Olga, she didn’t pick up.
Meanwhile, David was still keen on going to Ukraine. He had applied to become a foreign fighter in their war against Russia. David claimed he hadapplied to the Ukraine embassy to become a foreign fighter in Ukraine. David had served in the U.S. Army and had experience with the grenade, rifle, and special weapons training. David was gearing up for his move and as he waited for the embassy to get back, he followed an exercise routine to get back in shape, hit the gun range to sharpen his target practice, and purchased thousands of dollars worth of gear.
David Returned To Social Media In November 2024 After Long Break
David Looked Frail Amid Health Issues
Ukraine turned David down. He was informed that he didn’t have combat experience and claimed that it wasn’t because he was 61 years old. Still, David seemingly took another social media break that lasted for months this time. He didn’t let his fans know that he was missing from Instagram due to his health issues.90 Day FiancébloggerNikolas Stonestreetalso known as YourWetSock posted a picture with David. They were at The Cheesecake Factory. Nicolas captioned his post, “I’m convincing David to stop dating Ukrainian Women and invest that (money bag emoji) in American women."
David’s Family Announced He Has Died
David Passed Away On July 31, 2025
On August 23, 2025, a post fromDavid’s Instagram shocked millions of90 Day Fiancéfans around the world. It was posted, not by David but by his family to announce that David had passed away at home on Jul 10, 2025, after experiencing health issues over the last several years. It revealed thatDavid was 66 years old. The post mentioned that David was a veteran, small business owner, and software engineer. He had recently retired from the Clark County Treasurer’s office in Nevada, having also worked for H&R Block and IGT.
David issurvived by his two sisters and his cat Gamera. The family asked for privacy during this difficult time. David had a fierce love for cats. He always made an effort to adopt cats and give them a good loving home. David’s choice for adopting was from The Animal Foundation in Las Vegas. The post asked fans to honor his memory by making a donation to The Animal Foundation in his name. In the comments,David Toborowskyrevealed that he had spoken to David about six weeks ago and David was “hopeful that he still had more time.”
David Was Hospitalized In 2022
In 2022, David told his followers he was hospitalized and detailed several health issues. He hadblood clots in his lungs and blockages in his liver and pancreas.As perTMZ,90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days' David was sick with liver cancer. It was diagnosed a year ago. He had undergone over 13 surgeries in the last year. He was scheduled to go under the knife again before he breathed his last. David was meeting his friends and family even a week before he died. He was “very frail and unwell” and had lost a lot of weight.
90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Daysairs Sundays at 8 p.m. EST on TLC.
90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days
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A deeper look into the lives of couples established in 90 Day Fiancé, 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days is a reality tv/documentary series that follows the potential spouse from a foreign country and their lead-up to their journey to America. The show documents the early days of the relationship across the ocean and the K-1 visa process required for the spouse to live in the new country. Couples battle with culture shock, language barriers, and the opinions of friends and families alike as they prepare themselves to take the ultimate leap.
